This is the perfect 'starter set' for anybody wanting to experiment with a harness. The harness is beautifully made out of soft material, nylon and foam and has completely adjustable straps to ensure a secure fit. The dildo is textured, silicone and 5 inches long. The harness can be used with any dildo that has a flared base over 1.75 inches diameter for when you when to increase the heat.